THE TRUTH ABOUT A MAN...

Nothing I wrote Just something I Found Online and thought was interesting.

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
5 . Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then, Heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. (tell it like it is!)
8. Don't settle.
9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.
17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.<--Tell da truth!
19. Never let a man define who you are.
20. Never borrow someone else's man;
21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
23 . All men are NOT dogs.
24. You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is a two way street. 25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
29. Never move into his mother's house.
30. Never co-sign for a man. Im sharing this with other ladies knowing that..... this will make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire life to forget them. "There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart . . . pursue those."
" BEWARE OF HEARTBREAK...ITS SPREADING FAST...AND THERE IS NO CURE" MORE WORDS OF WISDOM THAT I'D LIKE TO PASS ON TO THE LADIES "HE MAY NOT HAVE BROKE UR HEART BUT UR SPIRIT, ALWAYS KEEP UR HEAD UP AND KEEP UR FAITH IN GOD. HE IS THE ONLY MAN THAT WILL NEVER LEAVE WHEN THINGS GET TOUGH BUT WALK BESIDE U UNTIL THE VERY END"